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Dark Girls have always longed for Tall Dark and Handsome guy, The dusky beauty is a classic example of love and life, The most romantic moves are made in moonlit darkness, Dark and light hearted singing  go hand in hand. The Whites of the World made Dark into sinister and slaves, Their killings and subjugation was labelled dark deeds, The dark African continent was plundered for ages, The Whites ruled and got wealth beyond anybody’s dream. Hindu darling God Krishna is dark, loveable and mischievous, There’s more to Dark that just colour, it embodies drama, Love humanity, not colour, He from up there created all, Live as one, long for peace, Dark will guide you to enlightenment.

Sharing my views on yet again another book of my favorite guru Robin Sharma – WHO WILL CRY WHEN YOU DIE!! This book comprises of 101 small easy chapters, which can also help a new reader develop the habit of book reading by way of reading 1-2 chapter every day. Each chapter adds an insight to lead your life and living on your own terms. The book is more like journey of the author, sharing his life experiences. This book can be considered as an everyday self-development tool for one’s personal daily growth. Book focuses on self-improvement and how to give your best to enrich lives of people around you. One might need to actively and consciously make these changes post identifying what is essential for us. He further explains beautifully, in knowing the difference between who you are and also about the sole purpose of our life. What I liked the best about this book, it also comprises of Robin's favorite quotes and sayings. Not just his quotes, but also shared motivational i...

There are some books which inspire us and actually prove to become a life changing tool for you, and one such book is IKIGAI by Hector Garcia and Francesc Mirales. IKIGAI is a Japanese concept and shows us how to find purpose of your life, value relationships, drive your passions. The book can be a guide about taking a pause from regular routine and do things that will give us a long and happy life. Author stresses on finding our own IKIGAI, and one of the best quote in the book is "To live is the rarest thing in the world, most people just exist that's all", we must quest to know how to live rather than just exist. He gives an outlook to practice simple things like practice gratitude (which I have more consciously started to implement) connect more with people, smile, laugh and spend your time in the present without dwelling much into the past.  The chapter I loved the most is FIND FLOW IN EVERYTHING YOU DO and how to get into the flow- Knowing what to do    ...

Begin the morning with a positive and loving heart, Let all the bad and  negatives be swept aside, Be kind, be chirpy, sing a song, shout and scream, Let The affectionate side of you come to the fore. Win the world by affection, not by force and coercion, Exhibit your capability, empower the peers, Enhance the drama, enthuse the team members, You are a sure winner, the world at your feet.  Stunning gestures, sustained hard work,  When the heart is kind, the soul breathes easy, Love is life, a journey thru different shades, Give more that you get, your Affection shines thru.

Life had become An emptied gift pack Unsure if I  Could bounce back A sliver of hope And with kids in tow Walking on a tightrope Was a life I could not throw In an empty elevator The door almost shut My heart skipped a beat When I saw a hand to slide A whiff of cool breeze A sight to appease There you were Simply made me freeze Our journey has just begun A love story with lots of fun With miles to run together  we’ll be second to none

People with worst past create best future When you become fearless  Life become limitless !! You are the unique and only one in the whole universe.  The world will not be the same if you do not exist ! Be around only to highest quality wherever you go ,  is the best winning move !!! Big dreams have small beginnings!! Do better and get better , you are your greatest investment!! No matter how different you are from each other , the bond of love can keep you together !!! Keep loving There is difference between being Liked and being valued !!! Be Valued The obstacles are those awful  things which you see , when you are not looking at your goal !! Truthfulness brings its own reward !! Don’t allow yourself to be heavily impacted by what you Don’t Have , instead of what you Do !!! Just think tomorrow will be our last day , your priorities for today will change !!! Success is a journey from failure to failure Without loosing yourself !!! You c...

Ever since I heard Raga speak about her story, was keen to read her book UNTOLD LIES !! Must say, have been lucky enough to get a signed copy from her 😊 The title itself had caught my attention as I could resonate a lot with this book. We all in our life time, go through a phase which we want to hide out of some fear of being accepted. Wherein we seek validation to feel accepted.  We fail to look into what we want, what we are doing is right? It takes a lot of courage to speak or write about your own story. The book is definitely one unconventional and distinct read. Raga has also introduced to us the beautiful concept of storyems, and has written each of her story in form of short inspiring poems. Each poem connects with your soul, stirs in the right emotion and captivates your attention. The narrative in perceptive of little girl is very ideal and relatable. The book is highly recommended for everyone and especially to ones who are living in denial, and in the...

I have read this book about a year back, and I was not able to resonate much with it.  Now that have started reading again, and my affinity for self- help books also being evident I read this book again. There are some books which you will need to re-read so that it instills the correct thought process, helps you channelize our thoughts. This book definitely gives us the vision to see life with a different perspective . It is one of the most powerful books I have read and more you read more you will get . To put in simple words this book can be your tool to answer all your questions . This book offers a scientific approach to practice faith and how our human mind works. How one we use our mind to get what we want ? The book also exaggerates on healthy practices such as daily meditation, gratitude and control your mind thereby keeping your fear and negativity away. He also explains how we have two kinds of mind - Conscious mind and Subconscious mind. How one can command or ...

As I was browsing thru what book do I start with, my eyes caught attention on this one. Being around the New Year, and time for new beginnings when most of us are trying to break some old habits and form new habits this book has been an apt read. Atomic Habits is one of the most comprehensive book which highlights on how to break bad habits and developing a good habit. He speaks about, how small changes in your daily routine adds up to one habit formation and positive changes. He has used a very practical systematic approach, even while reading the book you will feel the need to review your own self. The methods defined here are on how to curb the bad habits and form good habits are - 1. The four step pattern: cue, craving, response, reward to execute a habit 2. If we want to form new habits, we should make them obvious, attractive, easy, and satisfying. Author here has also explained the scientific approach towards habit formation. This book definitely warrants a re...

A Cage of Desires -- Shuchi Singh Kalra Finally completed the book given by my Santee Jaya. I took my time to read this one, as I could resonate so much with the story line and at many instances it actually showed me the mirror . Book talks about the challenges of women that we need to go thru to make our own self a priority, about how she needs to drive her desires, passions , journey of chasing her dreams and fighting for her rights.  Highlight of the book is on freedom for every married women who tend to be caged with her desires. The story is about Renu who was married with 2 kids and second character “Maya” , and how their lives are connected. The story of Renu is something which most of us would connect with. She stays in a marriage rather in a relationship for the fear of society, ignoring her own desires, dreams that she wished to pursue.  As a woman, how she is supposed to be available to  fulfill her duties and desires of the men in her life whi...

I have always been an avid reader of his Quotes on Facebook and his insta posts always caught my attention. Unless I was told by my mentor to read this book. This is my second read of Robin sharma, the first being The Guide to Greatness. This book is a must read as it speaks highly about how everyone of us have a leader within us. The book talks about the real time syndrome we all face at work, about just  being existent and executing our duties. It emphasizes how people in ordinary jobs or lower positions in life are also leaders as they perform well. The book narrates in depth through way of 4 mentors (Ana,Jackson,Ty and Jet) on how to lead lives, take ownership of our own existence and emerge as a winner. The book fills in a lot of positivity and is a great influencer. This book is highly recommended for anyone who is looking to up skill oneself on his way to self-development and self-transformation. To share a few quotes which I could relate the most from the book...

The most famous emphasized line from this book is “Winners don't do different things, they do things differently" Through this book, Shiv has tried to talk about winning strategies and many self-development action plan which would help us readers develop a positive attitude. Contents of the book has been summarized by way of 11 key chapters. The author has touched every crucial element such as motivation, attitude, setting of personal goals, having the right thinking, positive attitude etc. My personal chapter from the book is Subconscious mind and Habits. In each of the chapter, author has given live examples of leaders who have survived every challenge by choosing the right thing i.e POSITIVE ATTITUDE. Overall the book is a good learning experience and the phrases used in his book are highly motivating and inspirational. This book can also serve as tool for one who wishes to change their thinking and the basic life perspective.  Am sharing some of the quotes fro...

This is my third read of Robin, and as always one of the best self guidance book. This book is an absolute easy read with short chapters. His compilation, observations, inferences make it worth a read and proactive that can be efficiently implemented in daily life.  It is amazing how he guides to make your “ordinary life EXTRA ORDINARY!!  He speaks on goal setting, time management and sharing some of the quotes I loved the most – 🔅 One of our biggest regrets on our deathbeds is that we were not reflective though 🔅 Your schedule is the best barometer for what you truly value and believe to be important. 🔅 Every time you say yes to something that is unimportant, you say no to something that is important. 🔅 It’s never too late to become the person you have always dreamed of being. 🔅 Human beings move when their emotions are moved 🔅 This very day can be the first day of your new life. It's all your choice I have always been an ardent fan of his writi...

Having heard a lot of his motivational clips and videos on social media, I was keen to read the mentioned book. The book highlights on how to find a purpose and balance in one’s life. Book is primarily classified into 4 sections – • Personal Life • Relationships • Work Life • Social Contribution He has narrated about each of these pointers using numerous short stories, real time illustrations and examples. The book is easy to read , simple language and connects well. Author keeps you engaged with the book, though there are certain aspects of the book that does not match ones expectation. Having said this would like to add there are many take away from the book, to share a few - “Anyone can find the dirt in someone. Be the one that finds the gold.” “To accept someone when everything is going right is easy. But when things are falling apart around you and you stick together, that’s the test of a relationship. Love is when we have every reason to break up but we do not.” ...

This book by Chandramouli Venkatesan talks about being a catalyst for our own success in life and career.  The author emphasizes on the TMRR model (Target, Measure, Review and Reflect. It also highlights on doing simple daily exercise to spend time on reflecting your own action and self-introspect, “What could I have done better? He also explains, why most of people succeed in first half of their career life but struggle to succeed in the second half? Being in the second innings of my own career span, I like the way author cites examples of pursuing ones hobbies or passion during this stage. How having a passionate hobby, motivates and impacts at our workplace. He also talks about making vital decisions as to understanding when to quit the current organization, and gives a guideline on making such important decisions. Two of the pages, I personally related to from the book was • Circle of Influence and Circle of Concern. It is very essential for an individual to identify t...

HALF Go by what your gut says, your instinct is your guide, Go ahead with no doubts, no turning, Steadfast and determined, carry on till you reach the goal, No Half measures will allow you to scale new peaks. Believe in yourself, your ability and confidence, Shun gossip and half truths, you don’t need them, The proverbial glass is half full or half empty, Lay down the rules, better half or bitter one, walk the talk. You cannot cross half the bridge and win the battle, You May cringe in pain, cry in despair, kick yourself, Come out of stupor, the world beckons you, Grab with both hands the two halves, and make it one.

And on the cusp of things that broke my back, You taught me how to fly. No matter these things  that were done to me You taught me to rise. You encouraged me to free from the chains, That kept me broken and torn. You made me realize am nothing more, than a human storm. I have conquered so much. You have made me a fearless WARRIOR

Some people look towards sky to seek God; Others gaze to predict weather and the rain; I seek the sky as an outlet for my mind; The Sun, the Moon, stars and clouds answer me; The Hot Sun tells me to bide my time and relax; Moon of course is epitome of cool and calm; The multitude stars sparkle naughtily Playing hide and seek with the clouds; The vast canvas of ever changing colours; Planets and comets add to the surprises; The emergence of colourful rainbow;  Leaves no marvel to keep  away all the blues.

Rain has always been a part of my growing up; I was Happy when heavy rains closed the school; Teenage was  fun in getting totally drenched; During heartbreaks rain hid my gushing tears ; Monsoon made my mood, bhajia and chai; The clutter and splash, was soothing music; As people moved with umbrellas balanced perfectly Tears, water, sweat mixed to make a heady smell; Love it; hate it, hide from it but cannot escape, You will be caught, caressed and bathed in open; You will relish, others enjoy and rain Gods smile; Rain came, you saw, Rain conquered, adieu.

The rains invoke a dramatic mood activating all the senses in me. The refreshing sensation of the rain water, rejuvenates me completely.  Having waited for this season, like a farmer after the cruel heat.  That first drop of rains, giving me a reason to rejoice Ceases to keep away all my stress The aroma of the wet ground,  Sound of the droplets falling on earth The changing colors of the clouds Instills a different life bringing Emitting all the vibrant energies Rain kindles the romance for some of us Giving a different meaning and importance for each of us For me, Brings back the fond memories  Of the child in me who played with kagaz ki kashti  in barish ka paani children and animals playing in the rain and mud puddles for some of us it is the time with  friends to enjoy that sip of hot tea along with bhajiya and pakoda for me it is that time to bring in the  best companion OLD Monk in company of friends and  enjoy th...

Standing in the sun, look how you gleam and glow from the inside out. Rest in the truth, of your bravery and courage. Learn how to push through the fear and self-doubt. Make it a Great day 

In the hustle bustle of daily grind; Running from train to bus to job; Hurried brunch, late night dinner;  I lovingly think of you. Amidst the quest for excellence; Sweat and tear stand testimony ; Mad deadlines; demented boss; I make time to love you. I am quirky, stupid, foolish and more; Addicted to mobile, I talk a lot; Enjoy street food, roaming in rain; Your love keeps me alive. Each day I wait for tenderness, Tiny sweet messages full of hope; The need for each other  And Live for each other.

When the birds chirp They’re singing your name The wind from their flapping wings Whisper your name The sound of traffic honks Reminds me of your crazy waysa Ironically in utter silence too I feel your presence When it’s bright and sunny I yearn for your shadow And I yearn to see the rainbow When I gaze in your deep eyes You’re like the tender coconut on the warm sands you’re like the soaring kites that color the sky pretty I wish to be your freshly brewed coffee that can be enjoyed either just black  or with cream and sugar both hot and cold

The phone buzzed - a message from a stranger then something about the words that was a game changer my heart skipped a beat and warned me yet i was being pulled towards the danger Greetings turned to short messages and short messages turned to sweet nothings something about your actions that did the trick despite the warning, i fell in love like a lunatic When we would be alone I'd be enchanted by your touch I'd lose myself completely when i rest my head on your chest i wanna fall and keep falling into the abyss of your love and emerge only to see you take the plunge for me

Don't just learn, experience. Don't just read, absorb. Don't just change, transform. Don't just relate, advocate. Don't just promise, prove. Don't just criticize, encourage. Don't just think, ponder. Don't just take, give. Don't just see, feel. Don’t just dream, do. Don't just hear, listen. Don't just talk, act. Don't just tell, show. Don't just exist, live.

There’s no stopping of good deeds or action, There is no end for education and knowledge, Life is like signal, you stop, start and then accelerate,  Stop if you must, to catch your breath,  to rejuvenate. Stop is not an end, it’s just the beginning of change, You stop bad habits, healthy goodness flow in, You recharge the body, ready to take on the world,  Put in your best efforts, concentrate on the goal,  Stop at nothing, set the trend, Believe in yourself, Broaden the horizon, be tough, You are Unstoppable.

“Rise. It’s time. This moment has been a long time coming. Spread your wings, to fly high You’ve been growing them stronger Dig down deep, Discover the powers you’ve It’s right there, in your mind Only you can fulfill your destiny and purpose. All the best, it is your time to fly.

Like a cool drop of water trickling down the parched throat Like a drowning guy clenching on to the lifeboat That’s how important you are For me to feel alive Like the wind thrusting the wings Like the melody jumping out of the strings That’s how motivating you are For me to seize the day Like the bees searching for nectar within the flowers Like the rainforests drenching in the seasonal showers That’s how much I yearn for you And for me to be in your arms Like the dew drops on the smitten leaves Like the sweater a granny weaves That’s how much I want you For me to feel complete

You are magnanimous An unusual phenomenon that runs rapid and abundant that stands still in calamities that endures the pain of falling branches You  flow in me You instilled in me to be courageous With a strong determined mind You moulded me to become fearless, persistent, resilient I owe you everything for making me one fighter warrior  !!!

The month of Winter, vacation, exotic places, to chill, Nostalgia for the months gone by, sweet memories, Look at New Year, fresh beginning, hopes a plenty, Plan to chart a new course, to do things differently. Continue the journey, change the mode, accelerate, Faster pace, more to do, laggards left out, Eyes wide open, no time to blink, fast food, little sleep, Pause to take stock, is this what you want. Crowning glory is Christmas, God and grandeur, Party hard, live it up, jive, twist, rock n roll, You deserve it, you are enjoying one more year, Pray for this earth, who has given you so much to live